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Saturday, 7 September 2013

Flings vs Relationships

Every once in a while a man will realise that's it's time to go for something more meaningful than a one-night-stand. Don't worry, I'm not talking about relationships, I'm talking about flings, also known as affairs and casual relationships. So, what exactly is a fling? A fling is a short term, casual and very sexual relationship between two people. Think of it as the prelude to a relationship without the relationship afterwords. A fling usually lasts between a couple of weeks to a couple of months. They begin and consist of dates and sex and usually end with the dreaded relationship talk. 

Unlike relationships flings aren't exclusive meaning you could be snuggling an almost infinite amount of flings and still be having one-night-stands on the side. Awesome. Often with a fling one partner will believe it will be 'going somewhere' (usually the chick) and the guy will be lying to her to make sure she maintains that belief for as long as possible. Unfortunately these flings all come to an end when the chick initiates the relationship talk, which you can recognise by the signature 'were is this relationship gong?'. The relationship talk ends with you chained down to one chick in a relationship or with you singe and ready to move on to the next chick. 

So which is better, flings or relationships. Flings obviously, and here's why:
- No commitment 
- No fights
- Increased sex
- You still get to be single
- Long term lies really turn me on...

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